Home > Florida Death Records > This is long… possible legal issues with the ex?

This is long… possible legal issues with the ex?

So… another legal(s) question. I NEED to get a lawyer but of course no ones around until Monday and I will worry myself to death until then. My ex calls me tonight. This is all about the issue a few months ago where my son asked to be adopted (he is 12 and wants his step dad to adopt him)… So my ex tells me tonight that I will be getting served with papers hahahah…

When I ask what for he tells me that there are several things pending with the state att. 1) fraud. his child support is auto deduct from his check. In the past his company has over paid me and when I took steps to give it back I was told that all I had to do was agree to allow them to take "X" amount out of each payment in the future to cover it and that’s the best way to resolve this… that is what I have been doing. The last few weeks they have been double paying me. I called them and as per the agreement they told me that if his company sends it in with my name that they have to give it to me and if it is a over payment then they will just keep taking "X" amount until it is covered. Fine not a problem… he states that my case worker (at my request) has forged papers saying that he is in arrears and that they have auth the state to take double payments until this is caught up… I have not been to court / talked to judge / filed ANY sort of papers about child support. I am clue less but needless to say PER the ex I have a fraud charge coming.

2)He then tells me that he has hired a PI and this person has been following me for the last 8 weeks… they know every breathe that I take (If this is true then I hope this person was bored to tears!) States that he now knows everything about me… my employment record, 9 years of bank statements. Both of my kids school records (my daughter is not even his…) ect…Because of this, this has helped the state prove that there is cause to file neglect charges on me and take my kids… now maybe i am stupid but wouldn’t DCF or some other agency have to look into this. Visit me, visit my home ect? I have NEVER been visited my DCF or had cause to have them visit me.

3) my husband in under a PTI. This is for theft and his first offense ever. He was adv that as long as he behaves / shows up for his monthly check ins / pays the fines / does not get in any trouble that there are no other restrictions… he can come and go… drink even within reason and leave the county as needed… we went to NC back in Feb… My ex caused me and my husband to fight. It was bad and my ex called the cops. He is telling me that with one phone call he can have him arrested for this issue… the cops that responded at the time of issue ran his name… checked all his info and released him from the scene. How the hell can he cause my husband to be arrested for a issue that happened out of state when the responding cops did not see fit to?

and last I promise)
4) he says that the states has me for insurance fraud… Both of my kids are on Florida Kid care. have been for years. My ex now states that he can prove that he has had insurance on my son for the last 9 years and I just failed to use it… This is not something that I was ever advised of. In fact he told my mother that when we divorced the judge told him he had to pay for it…not give me the info… It’s hear say but….

I will use initials because the word is not acceptable on yahoo, but what he is feeding you is BS and none of it is even close to the truth. He cannot do any of the things he is claiming and he is trying to intimidate you, there is an old saying and it has connotations that are best not explained, Tell him to pound salt and stop worrying that is his intent and you are falling for it speak with an attorney and if in fact a PI had accessed the financial information that he claims it would be illegal and the PI would lose his license. Tell him his BS smells and you will see him in court.}{

  1. WATCHDOG
    May 28th, 2011 at 00:03 | #1

    I will use initials because the word is not acceptable on yahoo, but what he is feeding you is BS and none of it is even close to the truth. He cannot do any of the things he is claiming and he is trying to intimidate you, there is an old saying and it has connotations that are best not explained, Tell him to pound salt and stop worrying that is his intent and you are falling for it speak with an attorney and if in fact a PI had accessed the financial information that he claims it would be illegal and the PI would lose his license. Tell him his BS smells and you will see him in court.}{
    References :

  1. No trackbacks yet.