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How is this fair please read?

April 5th, 2010 10 comments

Okay Pa laws state a baby must take a breath in order to be considered a living person.

As most of you know we lost our daughter shortly after her birth. At 32 weeks. When she was born she had heart beat therefore being a living person. Pa is one of the only 3 states in the US to have laws that say a child must take a breath to be considered born. So that being said they say that my daughter was considered still born. Every single doctor who has worked with us that night we have spoken to they say she was absolutely not still born. I wondered why I didn’t receive a birth cert for Stefanie so I went to the records office and they told me to fill out a form and they would mail it to me they do not mail them out of respect of the mother. Well the next day I got a call from them and they said she would not get a birth cert because she did not take a breath on her own. And that has got me thinking. Now say she lived but could only breath by machines and say she was on these machines for 3 months. So to the state of Pennsylvania she is not born? So a child could be 3 months old and finally take that breath on their own and then considered born? So what would the birth cert say? They make these stupid laws without even thinking what they are doing. They say they won’t pass the law because of people who have abortions. Well think about how dumb that is if a person has an abortion than they must not have wanted the child so then why the hell would they worry about a birth cert. They have not given thought to the mothers and fathers who would like to have that acknowledgment. My daughter deserves a birth cert just as much as I do and you do and the person who made this silly law. I realize that a birth certificate really doesn’t mean anything but it would have still been nice to at least have something that showed she was here. In my eyes you are a living person when you have a heart beat she was outside of the womb for almost a half hour with a small heart beat. In my eyes, husband, and doctors we feel that is a living person. It is so upsetting I have shed so many tears in these past few months that I wouldn’t be surprised if I was dehydrated.

I’m posting to get your thoughts. Would you be upset and hurt by your child not being acknowledged. A person is alive when they have a heart beat do you agree? Just any answer is fine I guess.

We have a copy of the death cert. Now how can there be a death without a birth?

Thanks guys
We have her foot prints, blankets they wrapped her in and her hat, not to make anyone sad but in her hat is a little piece of hair that I just discovered a few days ago. Which is something because the day after I wished I had a lock of her long curly hair and I just happened to turn the hat inside out just to see and there it was. The hospital made us a hospital birth certificate which was very nice of them to do.

She was born May 9th at 11:08pm and the records say time of death was 11:55pm so she lived for almost an hour.

I just wish I could change this law but I’m not powerful enough. Maybe someday it will be changed and she will get what she deserves.

I am so sorry about your loss and the situation with your precious daughter. Im in OK, and the law here is a little different. Our daughter was born at 23 weeks, and lived for 4 hours. I was able to get a birth certificate fine, but couldn’t’ get a death certificate because the on call ped was new and didn’t ever file a death certificate. It was a huge mess – bad enough my daughter was dead, but 10 months later I had to PROVE that she was dead, and had died in the hospital. Finally my ob/gyn went to bat for me adn she wrote up the death certificate for our daughter. I would see if your ob would go to bat for you on this one. I think if she has a heartbeat it would be hard to say that she never took a single breath – but its all medical terminology – they don’t really leave much room for actuality or emotion.

I will be praying fro you and your family, and your precious baby girl. Yes, I would be absolutely upset. What is even more weird is that you have a death certificate and no birth certificate – I would make up my own birth certificate for her if I were you.

va and execitor of estate question?

February 24th, 2010 2 comments

I have a deseased loved one he was a va got va,medicare,socilal security and he died in a different state from my step mom seperated from her 5 years ago living in diff states from each other and some how she assumed execitor of his estate.she refuses to talk or reply to me and im biological daughter of his no one will tell me anything with out her permission.how do or where can I ask va questions if he had survivorship or life insurance thats being paid to wrong person I’m computer iliterate need links for va info for texas floridia and california so I can try get answers from them .Ive searched florida where they lived for more then 15 years probate records of estate she has to file and found nothing I also looked in state my father dies texas and no probate records there either i did come across abandon property 2000$ in his bank she dont know about or didnt claim and i need a disentrested person plus my birth cert and his death cert i may be able claim what is disentrested party?

What is your age?

As a minor dependent of your father you may be entitled to Social Security benefits as a dependent survivor.

As a minor dependent of a disabled veteran you may be entitled to survivor benefits from the Department of Veterans Affairs.

If you father was a disabled veteran he must have been in the military. If he was retired from the military you may be entitled to dependent survivor benefits from the military.

You may file claims with each of these agencies to determine whether or not you are eligible. Or, if you are too young, you may have a "guardian ad litem" file the claims on your behalf.
You do not need the permission of your step mother to file these claims on your own behalf. These are benefits that you, yourself, may be legally entitled to.

Good luck.

Is it abundantly obvious by their hateful responses that liberals are scared to death of the birth cert issue?

January 15th, 2010 24 comments

It’s not over by a long shot, there are so many viable lawsuits seeking to be heard that the courts are swamped trying to spike them, but people JUST WON’T GIVE UP because Obama the Kenyan ISN’T QUALIFIED TO BE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES.

If you think the corrupt politicians in Hawaii complicit in covering up Obama’s birth records are telling the truth WHY WON’T OBAMA UNSEAL HIS RECORDS and just let the public see what the corrupt politicians are seeing?

The TRUTH they don’t want out is that Obama was born in Kenya, went to muslim school in Indonesia and got a grant based on his foreign citizenship status to pay his Harvard tuition.

And if the truth ever got out, so many corrupt politicians would be exposed that the democratic party would be gutted, and the republican party would be purged.

It would be the best thing that could possibly happen to restore our country.

Get the dead wood out, UNSEAL OBAMA’S BIRTH RECORDS!

Pretty obvious to me. If it is such a "non-issue", why does Obama continue to fight it and spend so much money doing so rather than just showing it? If there was a valid copy laying around…a judge would have seen it by now. So far, the only suits that have been dismissed have been for a lack of standing (meaning the court cannot interpret the person requesting the information as privileged to that information), not on MERIT. Which is why a scant few of them are moving forward. Also, you are right. Just about every politician would reap what they sowed if this came out. After all, it’s all about counter attacking and they would all be spending millions by the day to run smear and attack ads on one another. 3…..2…..1 self destruct!

Is it abundantly obvious by their hateful responses that liberals are scared to death of the birth cert issue?

January 15th, 2010 26 comments

It’s not over by a long shot, there are so many viable lawsuits seeking to be heard that the courts are swamped trying to spike them, but people JUST WON’T GIVE UP because Obama the Kenyan ISN’T QUALIFIED TO BE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES.

If you think the corrupt politicians in Hawaii complicit in covering up Obama’s birth records are telling the truth WHY WON’T OBAMA UNSEAL HIS RECORDS and just let the public see what the corrupt politicians are seeing?

The TRUTH they don’t want out is that Obama was born in Kenya, went to muslim school in Indonesia and got a grant based on his foreign citizenship status to pay his Harvard tuition.

And if the truth ever got out, so many corrupt politicians would be exposed that the democratic party would be gutted, and the republican party would be purged.

It would be the best thing that could possibly happen to restore our country.

Get the dead wood out, UNSEAL OBAMA’S BIRTH RECORDS!

Pretty obvious to me. If it is such a "non-issue", why does Obama continue to fight it and spend so much money doing so rather than just showing it? If there was a valid copy laying around…a judge would have seen it by now. So far, the only suits that have been dismissed have been for a lack of standing (meaning the court cannot interpret the person requesting the information as privileged to that information), not on MERIT. Which is why a scant few of them are moving forward. Also, you are right. Just about every politician would reap what they sowed if this came out. After all, it’s all about counter attacking and they would all be spending millions by the day to run smear and attack ads on one another. 3…..2…..1 self destruct!