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scared to death about criminal record?

June 27th, 2011 3 comments

i have a lengthy criminal record that i’m ashamed of. im only 24 and spent a year in rehab. two nights ago i busted because someone had a pipe in my car and i had to take the rap for it. whatever the case the only thing i had going for me was that i completed a year of christian rehab and now everything is ruined. Im from tn and am going to be going to a school for finance in florida so i have two more years before i start looking for a professional job. I’m scared to death that my record which includes one felony will prevent me from ever having a finance job. im getting a ba degree will I be able to find anything. I have been crying all day and have lost almost all hope.
let me correct this it was my weed pipe.i just im not a drug addict i was only smoking alittle bit. i just didnt want it to come off sound horrible

Dont worry dude, tons of people get exeptions and jobs of all sorts. First off, your way better off then lots of people. People would kill to be you.

It gets better, trust me

Where can I get a free death record? *SORRY IT’S LONG*?

January 20th, 2010 5 comments

Okay, I’m having some issues here. My father…I mean…the man who donated sperm to make me. Sorry, but my father and I have never really had a whole lot to do with eachother. He chose drugs over being a real dad. The only reason we EVER had anything to do with eachother is because of my Abuela (his mom). She was one of the most wonderful people I have ever known. Anyway…back to my question. My father was very sick, contracted AIDS & cancer. He would always say he was taking all of the treatments but he constantly lied. Even about that. Last time I saw him he was very sick (he got extremely sick, not long after my Abuela died) and had even less to do with me. His girlfriend (another loser)…well, i wouldn’t put it past her to lie about something so serious. She called me back on…I believe it was October 13, 2007 and told me that my father had passed. I asked her what arrangements were being made for a funeral and all and she told me "none". That he was just going to be cremated and she was going to keep the ashes. Never asked my opinion (as his ONE AND ONLY CHILD) about anything. She had already decided and that was that. So i never argued the point, and never spoke to her again since that call. Anyway, like I said, he was a big drug addict, in and out of jail. Well, after he passed I called the jail to inform them (because he was on probation, and I didn’t want them going on a big search for him as they had done several other times as I was growing up, having bounty hunters or whatever on my doorstep asking me if I knew where he was). And they said "well, we need proof as in a death certificate. I said "okay, his girlfriend will have to deal with that one). Well, here I am a year and a half later, and I just decided to look up his name in the Florida Inmate Search website, and there is his mugshot (an old one), that says he is still under Supervised Probation until 7/2009. And the date says "Current as of 1/4/2009". So I’m starting to believe she actually LIED to me about his death!! I am very confused. Where can I get death records???? I don’t have much money right now (2 young kids, fiance out of work from MRSA, and a crappy economy) so I am wondering if there is anyplace I can look for FREE?

I don’t think that you can get anything for free. You would need to get the records from the town that he died in. I don’t think they are that expensive, but I do understand your money situation right now.

Maybe you can just call the town and tell them that you heard that your father died and if they can tell you if that is true?

Try googling his name with the word obituary after it…maybe something will pop up…or type death of__________(his name).

Hope this helps.

BTW, how is the fiancee?