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How is this fair please read?

April 5th, 2010 10 comments

Okay Pa laws state a baby must take a breath in order to be considered a living person.

As most of you know we lost our daughter shortly after her birth. At 32 weeks. When she was born she had heart beat therefore being a living person. Pa is one of the only 3 states in the US to have laws that say a child must take a breath to be considered born. So that being said they say that my daughter was considered still born. Every single doctor who has worked with us that night we have spoken to they say she was absolutely not still born. I wondered why I didn’t receive a birth cert for Stefanie so I went to the records office and they told me to fill out a form and they would mail it to me they do not mail them out of respect of the mother. Well the next day I got a call from them and they said she would not get a birth cert because she did not take a breath on her own. And that has got me thinking. Now say she lived but could only breath by machines and say she was on these machines for 3 months. So to the state of Pennsylvania she is not born? So a child could be 3 months old and finally take that breath on their own and then considered born? So what would the birth cert say? They make these stupid laws without even thinking what they are doing. They say they won’t pass the law because of people who have abortions. Well think about how dumb that is if a person has an abortion than they must not have wanted the child so then why the hell would they worry about a birth cert. They have not given thought to the mothers and fathers who would like to have that acknowledgment. My daughter deserves a birth cert just as much as I do and you do and the person who made this silly law. I realize that a birth certificate really doesn’t mean anything but it would have still been nice to at least have something that showed she was here. In my eyes you are a living person when you have a heart beat she was outside of the womb for almost a half hour with a small heart beat. In my eyes, husband, and doctors we feel that is a living person. It is so upsetting I have shed so many tears in these past few months that I wouldn’t be surprised if I was dehydrated.

I’m posting to get your thoughts. Would you be upset and hurt by your child not being acknowledged. A person is alive when they have a heart beat do you agree? Just any answer is fine I guess.

We have a copy of the death cert. Now how can there be a death without a birth?

Thanks guys
We have her foot prints, blankets they wrapped her in and her hat, not to make anyone sad but in her hat is a little piece of hair that I just discovered a few days ago. Which is something because the day after I wished I had a lock of her long curly hair and I just happened to turn the hat inside out just to see and there it was. The hospital made us a hospital birth certificate which was very nice of them to do.

She was born May 9th at 11:08pm and the records say time of death was 11:55pm so she lived for almost an hour.

I just wish I could change this law but I’m not powerful enough. Maybe someday it will be changed and she will get what she deserves.

I am so sorry about your loss and the situation with your precious daughter. Im in OK, and the law here is a little different. Our daughter was born at 23 weeks, and lived for 4 hours. I was able to get a birth certificate fine, but couldn’t’ get a death certificate because the on call ped was new and didn’t ever file a death certificate. It was a huge mess – bad enough my daughter was dead, but 10 months later I had to PROVE that she was dead, and had died in the hospital. Finally my ob/gyn went to bat for me adn she wrote up the death certificate for our daughter. I would see if your ob would go to bat for you on this one. I think if she has a heartbeat it would be hard to say that she never took a single breath – but its all medical terminology – they don’t really leave much room for actuality or emotion.

I will be praying fro you and your family, and your precious baby girl. Yes, I would be absolutely upset. What is even more weird is that you have a death certificate and no birth certificate – I would make up my own birth certificate for her if I were you.

Where are the missing Obama records?

March 12th, 2010 4 comments

1.Hospital records showing his birth in Hawaii
2. Mother (allegedly dead) death certificate showing who survivors are.
3, Funeral home records showing who attended mother’s funeral, who paid for it and when it occured and where.
4. Mother probate estate records showing who heirs are.
4. Brothers and sisters names, addresses and their birth certificates showing parentage and their information re Obama
5. Father’s name and address,. and if dead, his death certificate.
6, High school records of Obama showing who parents were said to be
7. Immigration records of alleged father of Obama
FIND TRUTH

Dude I don’t even like the new president. I didn’t vote for him. He is a fake and he is already spending more $$$ in office making the U.S. more in debt. Next 4 years are going to be hell with him in office. Thanks America for voting for him that wanted Change!?!?! You got what you asked for America! I think it wasn’t about electing him in office b/c of politics, I think people elected him in office to make history for the first black president. Next thing you know it, America will have Indian, Native American, Chinese, Japanese, Hispanic, Hindu, Islamic, German and more presidents like that. & when that happens America will be a wasteland.

A woman caught me peeing in my backyard and called the cops, what can I expect?

January 2nd, 2010 13 comments

Its a messed up situation,so please help, Im scared as hell. Instead of going up to the bathroom I lazily started peeing in the backyard.It faces an alley. A woman driving by saw me and told the cops I was publicly exposing myself to her, and I was 100% not doing that. Now Im lazy stupid and wrong for going outside, but I cant prove that, nor can she prove I was exposing myself. I was released and told Ill get papers in the mail, then have to go to the court house and take care of stuff. I was never told anything besides that. Does anybody have any idea what Im likely to be charged with? I know its possible for public lewdness,exposer, or public urination. When I say one thing and she says another, how is that figured out? Can anyone help me, please??? I really truly need it. Im 21 with no prior record, I live in Pennsylvania. I am scared to death what this might do for my future, please help me out.
Thank you all very much for the advice firstly. Secondly a couple more fuzzy details. It says that I could possibly have to be a registered sex offender because of public exposure, just for urinating in public charge. And can anyone else tell me what to expect? As far as, they let me go and told me Id recieve something in the mail. What then? Im not familiar with any of this stuff so I have no clue what Im doing here. Thank you all for your responses. I thank each one of ya more than Ive ever thanked anyone.

That happened to me. I ducked into an alley to take a leak, and a woman saw me. She said I was exposing myself to her, but I said I was taking a piss. The judge agreed with me, and charged me with public urination, which is the equivalent of a traffic ticket.

Question Death Certificates from Vital Records in New York City?

December 11th, 2009 6 comments

I want to order the death ceriticates of 7 of my 8 great-grandparents. I already know where one was born, so I don’t need that one. I pretty much know where all of them died. That’s not what I’m looking for. What I’m looking for is if that record says where they were born too, and if possible, who there parents were. It costs $15. I’ll probably order one and see what it says, and than do the rest, but it takes like 6-8 weeks in between. Based on personal experience though, has it said place of birth on it?

I agree with Wendy.
Order the death certificates.

Knowing whether or not your ancestors died from a disease/health condition that may affect your health is worth the price of the certificate.

I have the death certificates of my paternal grandparents, maternal grandmother, my dad, 2 older brothers and a sister, as well as my 2nd step-mother-from Hell, all from Florida.
All show their birth dates and places, dates, times and places of death, their occupation, place of residence, the name and address of the funeral home, date of burial, names and places of the cemetery(s) and parents names.

If a death certificate gives you just one new piece of information, it’s worth more than $15.00.

Even the smallest clue can become the biggest clue.