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Does he deserve a second chance?Its all bittersweet!?

November 9th, 2011 8 comments

ok so heres the scoop. my boyfriend and I have been together 3 1/2 years. We have a 2 year old daughter and we bought a house last april. Since the beginning commitment has always been an issue. I got pregnant 7 months into the relationship while on birth control and he didnt want a child at the time so he asked me to get an abortion. I refused and eventually he was OK with the idea however he said i Trapped him into the relationship by getting pregnant. We have never broken up but there were times where it was an option. We have been to counceling together and i seemed to do nothing but positive for us-which is great! Marriage is something i have always wanted and it went from "i will never marry you, to Maybe one day" I am his first serious relationship and he was always wondering if he was missing out on other women but he never cheated until NOW!. About 1 month ago he went to florida to work and is currently still out there. I found out through my phone records that he was talking to another woman. I confronted him and he admitted to it. They didnt have sex or oral but they kissed and he gave him a hand job. I also talked to the woman and thier stories matched, I have no doubt he was being honest. I was furious and i gave him an ultimatum-Put a ring on my finger by december or i am done and i will do everything in my power to keep you from our daughter. HE TOOK IT. I bought a ring last thursday ($3000) and i am holding it until he returns oct 15th where he is supposed to propose. I am very overwhelmed though. I love him to death but i am sad it took him cheating to take the next step when giving him an ultimatum. I hope he doesnt ever cheat and he says e wont-he even got a tattoo symbolizing our daughter and myself. Could he really have had an ephihany after cheating?Realizing what he had back home and wanting to marry me? Am i crazy for giving him a second chance or can this really work? Was this really what needed to happen in order for him to commit? Please help me and reassure me giving him a second chance was the right thing to do!!! thanks
i should add a couple years ago i kissed a gay guy in front of him while at a gay bar in chicago. He was pretty upset but never broke up with me

I am saying i have not been faithful or an angel the whole time so can i really be upset for what hes done?

also i asked WHY he cheated and he said he was lonely! I don’t buy it for a second i believe an opportunity came up and he took it

Dont get married, Just because he puts a ring on it and signs some papers doesnt mean he will change. If he really wants to change it will take time, he wont change over night.

Dont rush into getting married, wait for a while and make sure he is ready to be a good husband, like I said he wont change over night it will take a while, if you let him slide this time he will think its ok and do it again. Time will tell so, be engaged for now and see how that works out for a while.

Do You Think Howard K Stern had a Hand in the Death of Anna Nicole and Son Daniels Death ?

January 15th, 2010 30 comments

Following very closely the court proceedings in Florida regarding who gets custody of the remains of Anna Nicole Smith has brought several issues to light. :

1.) Howard K.Stern essentially has/had no income of his own and that Anna Nicole Smith was supporting him.

2.) Howard was the one who obtained her prescription drugs for her-even though he knew that she was obtaining these under an assumed name at times.

3.) Howard Stern was the one who signed the contract for the burial plots in the Bahamas.

4.) Apparently according to the lawyer for anna’s mother, he had proof ( a fax record he had obtained) that Howard Stern recieved a copy of Anna’s will, five whole days before she even died !!

5.) it was mentioned in court that if Howard truly loved her-How could he allow her to continue this drug use ?

6.) As Anna was seemingly in a on again off again drug haze,How could she have the sound mind to write a will,let alone sign one and let alone choose a gravesite for herself

First of all, I do not think Anna and Howard k ever had a physical relationship. If you ever watched her reality show on E- she may have screwed everyone else—but not Howard. She would often get mad at him and tell him his problem was he needed to get some so he wouldnt be so bitchy.
But for some reason he was always there. She was his one and only client. He could have made major bucks being a lawyer, but instead chose to suck off of her and wait on the big settlement. He had his eye on more than just the fee he would receive.
Why the problem with Birkhead? Well what do you think would happen to Howard if they got serious? Do you think he would still sleep on the couch. Howard knew he had to do something to keep her out of a committed relationship that might lead to marriage. It was o.k for her to screw around , but when she got a serious relationship, this threatened his free ride.
The one common denominator in this is methodone. It was in the house, administered by howard- by his own admission and while she was pregnant. Anna did not drive. Others went on pharmacy trips for her , etc. Daniel was known not to do drugs and even be on his moms case a lot for drug use. He was a straight A student. Maybe he was on a rx antidepressant, but would not be on methadone. A witness told police that Howard flushed drugs down the toilet after Daniel died.
The same witness also testified that Anna told him Larry birkhead was the father, but she wanted to take him out of her life and the babys. She asked his advice on where she could move so he could not have any rights. The freind suggested the Bahamas ,because they legally consider the name on the birth cert. This is the only reason she went. She went expressly for this reason.
I think Howard had her so drugged up so he could call all the shots. The whole time she was pregnant, noone but Larry was ever even mentioned as the father until they broke up. He was there for everything.
Maybe a drug addict does need to make the choice for themselves, but someone sneaking in a duffle bag full of drugs while a pregnant woman is detoxing? What drug addict could fight and deal with that?
Another thing- HKS contradicted hisself several times on the stand. First- he said anna talked about death since her met her . he said she thought she would die young and was obsessed about death. He also said she thought she would did giving birth. She tried to kill herself just two weeks prior.YET- when asked why she didnt change the will since Dannielyn was born (after all he was her attorney) and provide for spouses, children , etc.-Howard stern said "Anna didnt think she would die- and I didnt think she was going to die."
What? This is her attorney who helps direct and prepare wills . He doesnt think a new will is a good idea for a suicidal drug addict that talked about dying all the time? WEIRD
If any of you visit TMZ.com , you will see that HKS has all but conceded Larry is the father— but he wants to negotiate and let Larry have his child, if he gets the other Bahamian house and yaught- and get this—- stays the legal trustee over Danielynn. A man that does not work wants control over this childs inheritance.Basically, he is saying Larry Birkhead could buy his own baby.
This is all definitly motive. Did anyone see the clown tape? Watch in on www.tmz.com Anna is high out of her mind and 8 mo pregnant, and howard is taping her in clown makup and telling her "this footage is gonna be worth a lot of money"
BTW, other than in court, HKS is obviously stoned out of his mind half the time.After Danny died he did the interview on larry king. He was like he is most of the time. Eyes bulging and red, constant slurred speach. Anna was not the only one doing methadone. The court needs to order a drug test for Howard Stern . Social services should step in.
This child was living in a household where methadone is just sitting in the fridge. But not groceries of any kind. Other than slim fast. This child has no chance in a home like this.
I dont think howard loved her. I think she was his cash cow. She needed someone though to help her get things that other assistants would probably not do. But she really thought as her friend, he could manipulate her into taking whatever her wanted. It really is a perfect idea. Daniel was the only heir– now he is gone . Now Dannielynn. Since anna is dead this is the only heir, and because of the Bahamian law which I am sure, Howard the lawyer researched, he could become instant daddy legally, and if Anna died- father of the only heir.
I think he talked a drugged and dazed anna into a ceremony. He probably scared her and said, look, if he is the father he could get custody and even the money. I am sure that is why they did a commitment ceremony to make it look legit. But Anna could have legally married him just as easily but didnt. She did not want to. She just wanted to stage this with howard thinking she was being smart protecting her assets from anyone claiming paternity. She trusted howard enough to not be worried with him having this title as father. She never thought he would hurt her.
If HKS did not kill her through homicide, he at least contributed to her death . And there is no doubt, he is all about the money. Her body wasnt even cold yet and he let ET fly with him and do this sickening interview with him holding the baby. He got HUGE bucks for this. He supposedly is her current lover, but is able to do interviews and make big $$ hours later?
I think that if the Bahamas will not enforce DNA testing, then Americans should boycott the Bahamas. This baby wont be a baby for long. She is growing up and Birkhead is missing things he will never get back. His child is in a drug den and noone will help him.