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What You Can Learn from Funeral Records

Funeral records are documents kept by funeral homes detailing the funeral services that were registered with them. When it comes to conducting research on the death of an individual, death records are often the first recourse while funeral documents are often (unjustly) overlooked.

One of the primary reasons why funeral records are ignored is that, unlike death records, they are not considered public records. Funeral homes are not required by law to release funeral documents unless there is just cause. But as of late, more funeral homes are allowing the general public to request for this information, provided that the name of the deceased and the date of death are provided accurately by the requesting party.

Since the funeral home director is tasked with the responsibility of filling out the death certificate, the latter is also part of the funeral records they keep at most funeral homes. Aside from the date of birth and death, other information that you can find in the death certificate includes the name of the spouse, name of parents, the place of residence at death and the name and location of the cemetery.

On the actual funeral records, one can find a list of surviving family members of the individual who passed away. Sometimes, even the names and addresses of the in-laws and grandchildren are included on this list, since this will be needed for placing obituaries in newspapers.

Although not often the case, there are instances when funeral documents also reveal the deceased person’s last will or testament, birth certificate, insurance policy and military record. These information are of course especially relevant for those trying to trace their lineage, track down ancestors and uncover their own family history.

Funeral Records Go ‘Live’ Online

Due to the sheer volume of funeral records, many mortuary facilities have chosen to digitize all their records and offer them online. Being able to access funeral documents online is advantageous for mortuary facilities since this saves them the additional cost of having to maintain a separate physical archive, sometimes even employing the services of a third party record keeping company.

For people wishing to acquire copies of funeral records, retrieving them online preserves these records for posterity. Digitized copies mean that the risk of these records getting lost, stolen or damaged is significantly reduced and are more likely to be able to withstand the test of time.

One caveat for anyone accessing funeral records is that these records may not be entirely accurate since most of the information is supplied by the surviving family members and then compiled by the funeral director. As such, any information that you learn from funeral documents has to be double checked against other sources of data before they can be deemed as conclusive.

The registrar of vital statistics, the county of death and cemeteries may also have some related records that can be utilized for research purposes and serve as excellent supporting documents for funeral records.

Amit Mehta
http://www.articlesbase.com/law-articles/what-you-can-learn-from-funeral-records-60065.html

  1. Jess
    January 5th, 2010 at 20:58 | #1

    Songs to sing/play at a funeral?
    we found out that my grandma has terminal cancer about 2 months ago, and yesterday we found out they gave her 2 months to a year.
    i want to try and learn a song to play (on guitar/piano) for the funeral, or atleast record for her.
    i need some serious songs, my family is not the joking kind… and some religious songs are alright, but i myself am not religious at all…

    looking for things that are very meaningful, sound very nice, and are easy to sing. i havent been playing guitar long so if its a tab/chord song, nothing too difficult…

    very much appreciated.

  2. Sara N
    January 6th, 2010 at 02:00 | #2

    At my friend’s funeral, we played "Fix You" by Coldplay. It’s a very emotional song (written for Gwyneth Paltrow when her dad passed away). It would be a good choice if she was always trying to help people.
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  3. K M
    January 6th, 2010 at 02:02 | #3

    How about a Bob Dylan song, his chords are generally quite simple and his words are beautiful. A few suggestions are Blowing in the Wind, Forever Young, Death is not the End. Another one that is actually beautiful on solo guitar with voice is Knocking on Heavens Door by Guns and Roses. The one that I love personally is Somewhere Over the Rainbow/What a Wonderful World – Israel Kamakawiwo’ole. If you don’t know it then google it and prepare to be amazed at this mans voice and the beauty of the song. Any of these should be relatively easy to play on guitar and good for any range of voice.
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  4. talltenor56
    January 6th, 2010 at 02:04 | #4

    Jess,

    I’m so sorry to hear about your grandma and its sooo nice of you to want to do something. As a church organist for a long time I’ve played and sung for a number of funerals – both for people I knew (and were related to) and not. Just a couple of tips:

    Don’t underestimate the power of emotion. It will not be an easy time. Don’t set yourself up for a really hard time, and singing is the hardest by far.

    Find out if your grandma has a favorite hymn. Usually hymns are pretty easy to play and people would recognize them, and they tend to be short. You can repeat if you want to. If not a hymn go to a music store. They will have collections of both wedding and funeral music. This might give you some ideas and some songs you know. If your grandma is near you, I’m sure she’d love to hear you play now.

    The right thing will come to you.
    I wish you and your family the very best.

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  5. horseloveraddict22
    January 6th, 2010 at 02:06 | #5

    Ave Maria. My sister played it at both of my grandparents funerals and it made everyone cry.
    Its very beautiful, so I hope you’ll consider it.
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  6. Plinko
    January 6th, 2010 at 02:08 | #6

    You could play her favorite song, or you could play a song that when you hear you think of her.

    Wind Beneath My Wings – Bette Midler

    Stairway to Heaven – Led Zeppelin

    I Can Only Imagine- Mercy Me

    The Dance-Garth Brooks

    Mansion Over the Hilltop

    Amazing Grace

    How Great Thou Art

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  7. geekchick
    January 6th, 2010 at 02:10 | #7

    Bach – Sheep May Safely Graze. Someone can write out tabs for you to accompany the piano on your guitar. There are no words so nothing to offend anyone and yet it’s a very peaceful and serious song, and very comforting.
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