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How to look for my birth mother who has been missing over 20 years?

May 5th, 2010 2 comments

I Have been searching for my birth mother for several years now. I am 29 Years old and I am a mother of three amazing boys who don’t know there own grandmother . I have an older brother who really is not interested in finding her. I found out last year on Christmas Eve that I had a sister same birth mom. She was adopted and she new about my brother and I all her life. I met her for the first time last year on New Years. It was so awesome getting to know her I never had a sister I never new about her which makes me sad. My mother’s name is Martha Ann McGraw her D.O.B. IS 1-1-1959 her last known where about was in Mesquite Texas in 2002. She has no record after 2002. She is not in any death records in Texas. She hasn’t been remarried as far as know. I tried every agency. Most of them are way tooooooooo exspensive. It is an endless search . Does anyone have any ideas for me on my journy to search for my long lost Birth Mother ? NO ON IN MY ENTIRE FAMILY IS HELPING ME NOR KNOW WHERE SHE COULD BE THEY GAVE UP. I will never give up my search for my mother. PLEASE HELP SOMEONE!!!

ancestry.com is sometimes useful. Try searching local town databses, like the tax assessor’s office database, in nearby towns to where you think she may be. If she owns a home/property you may find luck. Those databases are open to the public (a few towns may charge small fee to access), but they will not show up on a google search.

This can be a tough thing. Do you make yourself searchable on the internet? If you maintain a public page for yourself, you will make it easy for her to find you, if she’s looking.

Keep searching, the internet is a valuable tool. Use different search engines, yahoo, ask.com, etc …. sometimes they come up with different results.

Death Record in California?

December 14th, 2009 1 comment

My birth mother married an American (not my birth father) and moved to California. Sadly she died in 1990, long before I managed to find her. I have found her death record via Ancestry.com and now I would like to get a copy of her death certificate. I searched the website for California Vital Records and I am unsure as to whether I am entitled to apply for a copy of hercertificate. I THINK that I can apply for an ‘uncertified’ copy but could anyone verify that please? I was born in, and still reside in the UK and my mother was Engish

If I were you, I would contact the American Embassy I’m sure they can tell you what you need to know,

Good luck and good hunting